SHE WANTS A MAN NOT A BOY

Time makes us old and make the world expect more from us, every growing boy at one point will say “to be a man is not easy”. Have you gotten to that point in your relationship as a man and wondered how every successful married man cross that stage? Or how your father did?

1)      To please a woman is laying down all your needs and wants for her happiness.

2)      Your schedule changes, your budget too, just as long as she will be happy.

3)      Be committed to serve her, you can’t be a man if you can’t sacrifice for your woman happiness.

4)      A man must learn to listen to her all the time and keep record of her conversation in his memory for future references, take note of every information she is trying to get across to you.

5)      You must pay attention to her when she speaks to you, form the habit of looking into her eyes with a smile and then look to her lips gently as she speaks to you, this helps her see how much you care and enjoy listening to her as she speak.

6)      Remind her how much you care about her, device a means to surprise her with the simplest of gift or anything as long as it will reflect your love for her.

7)      See her as a baby that needs your time and attention even if she disagree with that (it’s a man thing) and always give her your time. If she don’t demands your attention there must be something wrong.

8)      As a man you have to be creative in making her smile all the time. Hey guys you have to think! Think man! Think! But let it be natural.

9)      Be sensitive, always notice everything she put on and give good compliments especially telling her how beautiful she looks.

10)   Give good compliments about her smile.

11)   You must learn to love her at her worst. If you are sad don’t try to make her sad. Get your point across in a gentle and loving way.

12)   Be careful of what you say do not let your emotions ruin every good times you have shared with her.

13)   As a man you must be slow to anger and quick to forgive.

14)   A man must learn to hug her at least twice a day, do it right don’t be creepy about it.

15)   Play with her hands as you walk her home or hold her firm, this helps her to build confidence in you.

16)   Always ask how her day went.

17)   Always communicate with her far or near. Take note!

18)   When you need a friend let her be that friend.

19)   When you need a mother to talk to let her be your mom.

20)   Treat her with respect and loyalty no matter the environment you find yourself.

21)   A man must be trustworthy.

22)   A man must learn to be patience. Wait a little more and a little more and a little more, a little more and a little more, more, more, more, more.

23)   A man must be without fear because she indirectly sees you as a hero even if she sometimes don’t know.

24)   A man must learn to laugh to her jokes.

25)   A man must appreciate her always. Don’t fail!

26)   A man must not compare her with another.

27)   When she feels like dancing, dance with her.

28)   A man must not sleep while she is depress or crying.

29)   A man must admit when he is wrong and drop all pride and apologize with all humility. Learn to say “I am sorry”.

30)   A man must learn to show her always, how much he loves her.